Friday, July 17, 2026

 


Raymond Frank Bentele Obituary

Raymond “Ray” F. Bentele, 89, died May 31, 2026.  He resided in Town and Country and also wintered on Captiva and Sanibel islands, Florida.  He is survived by his dear and loving wife, Deborah (nee Koons) Bentele of 25 years; his daughter Denise Bentele of Creve Coeur; son Douglas Bentele (Karin) of Kirkwood; five grandchildren: Mary Sabrina (nee Bentele) (Josh) Rakoff; Madeline Heintz; Alexander Bentele; Meredith Heintz and Sophia Bentele; as well as his sister Carolyn (Jerry) Snidow of St. Peters, Missouri; as well as many loved nieces and nephews.


He was predeceased by his first wife and mother of his children, Mary Bentele and son Daniel Bentele.  Also, brothers Kenneth Bentele, Norbert Bentele, Ronald Bentele, Leo Bentele and sisters Reta Bentele Cupp, Mildred Bentele Chambers and Elizabeth Bentele Lowe.


He was born November 22, 1936, on the family’s small farm in Macon County Missouri.  He was the son of Albert Bentele and Dorothy (Modglin) Bentele.  His early schooling was in a one-room schoolhouse that required a walk of four miles each way.  Later, after the family moved into the town of Macon, he attended the Immaculate Conception elementary school, graduated from Macon High School in 1954, and Northeast Missouri State University (now Truman State University) in 1960, with a bachelor’s degree in business administration and a major in accounting.  He was the first member of his family to attend college.


After high school he enlisted in the US Army in the era of the Korean conflict. He already had two brothers serving there, so he was sent to Germany where he was stationed for two and a half years as part of the Cold War defenses near the border with East Germany.  While overseas he graduated from the Seventh Army Non-Commissioned Officers Academy in Munich.  Immediately after his discharge in 1957 from the Army he enrolled in college.


Upon graduation from college, he joined the accounting firm S.D. Leidesdorf in their St. Louis office.  Leidesdorf eventually merged with Ernst & Ernst, later becoming Ernst & Young.  After leaving Leidesdorf in 1965 he became Chief Financial Officer of Germania Savings and Loan in Alton, Illinois.  In 1967 he joined Mallinckrodt Chemical Works in charge of financial planning and analysis as the start of a twenty-six-year career with the company.


His career at Mallinckrodt involved many management positions from finance to leading operating groups, becoming President and Chief Operating Officer before being named Chief Executive Officer and Chairman of the Board.


His principal operating experience was running the international business which under his leadership grew dramatically from a small export business to having operations based in Canada, most countries of Europe, Mexico, Brazil, Japan and Australia.


The company came under unfriendly takeover attempts as Mallinckrodt was highly prized by many companies who wanted to enter the specialty chemicals and medical products industries. The company had enjoyed spectacular growth in sales and earnings for twenty consecutive years and thus was an inviting target.  After a vigorous and lengthy defense trying to stay independent, the company negotiated a merger with Avon Products Company achieving the highest value to Mallinckrodt shareholders. This began a decade-long struggle to survive and keep the company intact through several owners.


Avon’s business prospects began to dim as the door-to-door cosmetics business fell on hard times while Mallinckrodt continued to have excellent growth owing chiefly to new diagnostic products it invented which required expansion capital which Avon was unable to provide.  Hence, in 1985, Avon’s board decided to sell Mallinckrodt.  Ray attempted to construct a buyout but the company was acquired by International Minerals and Chemicals (IMC) of Chicago later to change their name to IMCERA.  Once again that parent company struggled to survive as the fertilizer business deteriorated which led to a reorganization and several dispositions.  Again, during this time Mallinckrodt continued to prosper.  Eventually, IMCERA was collapsed into Mallinckrodt and the entire company was relocated to St. Louis - realizing an important goal of his, to re-establish headquarters here.


At that time Ray chose to retire and turned the leadership of the company over to Ray Holman as his successor.


In addition to the Mallinckrodt Board of Directors Ray served on several Boards pre- and post-retirement including; Avon Products, International Minerals and Chemicals, IMCERA, IMC Global Inc., Kellwood Company, Leggett & Platt, Inc., Boatmen’s Bank, Centerre Bank, The Mosaic Company, AMCON Distributing Company and Summit Marketing.


His professional affiliations included the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants; Financial Executives Institute of America; Member of the Corporate assembly of Blue Cross and Blue Shield; Director of the Chemical Manufacturers Association; and Honorary Fellow of the American Institute of Chemists.


His past community service included; Board of Trustees and Chair of Audit and Finance Committees of Washington University in Saint Louis; Director of St. Luke’s Hospital; Director and Chairman of the Board and Chairman of the 1985 annual fund drive of the United Way of St. Louis; Director, Commissioner, co-chair of the annual fund drive and recipient of the Silver Beaver Award of Boy Scouts of America; Ranken Technical College trustee; Civic Progress of St. Louis; Director of Backstoppers; Trustee of St. Louis Art Museum; Trustee of Saint Louis University; Director and chair of annual fund drive in 1984 of the Arts and Education Council of St. Louis; and director of Missouri Research Park.


He established scholarship funds at Truman State University and Washington University.  He is a member of the Bogey Club in St. Louis.


For several years after retirement he owned and operated a farm in Pike County, Missouri where he enjoyed working outdoors and had a substantial vegetable garden from which he generously shared the harvest with friends.


Hunting and fishing were great joys in his life particularly when he could include his son and grandson. He did big game hunting on safaris in Africa; upland game shooting in the UK, South Dakota, Argentina, Spain and fishing in Alaska, Canada and many other destinations. Golfing trips with gentlemen friends and wine tours with close friends provided great fun and memories. Traveling to many countries with his wife, Debbie, was especially a great joy. Among their final trips were Israel in 2022, and western Canada for their 25th wedding anniversary in 2025.


Donations are requested to The International Institute of St. Louis - https://www.iistl.org/ (3401 Arsenal St., St. Louis, MO 63118)  in memory of Daniel Bentele and to The Special Education Foundation - https://www.sef-stl.org/ (2 Cityplace Dr., Suite 200, St Louis, MO 63141)  in honor of Debbie Bentele. Direct links below.

 


Visitation Friday June 19th, 10am until time of Mass of Christian Burial beginning at 11am, both at St. Clement of Rome Catholic Church. 1510 Bopp Rd. St. Louis, Missouri.  Interment Private.  



                        

Sunday, July 12, 2026

Redwan & Sneha invitation to Gather & Graze

 



I was honored to be included in this event on July 11, 2026 at the Pointe at Ballwin Commons. I've come to know Redwan as one interested in Marketing. He has been present at a number of American Marketing Association, Saint Louis chapter events. He and Sheha clearly orchestrated this event. 

Dave and Linda Shogren and Juan (of U S International Foods), Mark Denk (of NY Life), and one of Dave's students from Webster University (from Napal) and an audience of largely Indian decent. 

 


I was the first to arrive and pretty much was alone in the crowd. But sometimes, allowing yourself to meet and greet new people can prove rewarding and satisfactory. Many Thanks to Redwan and Sheha forn hosting and allowing me to be a part of this Gather & Graze.





  


 


  

Saturday, June 27, 2026

Beauty in the Stars






 



 




























































































































































(Above) Stars, in no particular order: Ann Margret 1962, Judy Garland 1944, Bette Davis 1940, Carole Lombard 1934, Jane Russell 1951, Jean Harlow 1936, Joan Crawford 1939, Kathryn Grayson 1947, Lauren Bacall 1944, Liz Taylor 1958, Mary Astor 1944, Mryna Loy 1936, Norma Shear 1939, Ruby Keeler 1935, Ava Gardner 1959, Eva Marie Saint 1959, Maeilyn Monroe 1955, Fay Wray 1933, Veronica Lake 1941, Greta Garbo 1933, Ali MacGraw 1970,



Friday, June 19, 2026

Lots to worry about. Ask your doctor.

 



Thanks to the "idiot box" and too much time on my hands and too much crime on TV I've noted just of few things I'm hearing. In almost every case I can't decipher the plethora of warnings and can't even come close to just exactly I should ask my doctor about.

REPATHA tells me to "listen to your heart". Good advice I guess, Cute cartoony heart on the couch.

EYELEA HD is telling me to "Save your vision".

NEFFY seems to be mom's solution for Allergy Relief. Not sure who I need to talk to about this. Maybe this is an over the counter solution but...

ZEPBOUND, I guess is one of a bunch of solutions for strategic weight loss. I guess I need to contact Lilly Medicine Company for more information....or ask my doctor?

QUILIPTA  - another alphabet jumble name. This one will be a solution for Migraine. Will my doctor understand when I share this list of questions/complaints?

COBENVY - Am I supposed to be convinced that these smiling people are dealing successfully with Schitzophrenia because Bristol Myers Squib is running advertising on TV?

XIIDRA  - Well brand "X" must be trustworthy if advertised and I Ask my doctor about dry eye?

DUPIXENT - tells me to Do more with less Asthma? Huh?

Manufacturers sometimes want some of the spotlight on TV too like ABBVIE. They are saving me the trouble of rememebering some jumbled alphabet drug name but wants me to be on the lookout for Double Whammy of some sort of Psoriasis. Talk to your doctor.

BIKTARVY is an HIV treatment. 

OPDIVO QVATIG - Cancer Immuno treatment. (sp?)

RINVOQ - put UC in check. What?

TREMFYA - Imagine being a million miles away. What?  

CAMZYOS - "First in it's class..." Reduce obstructive in heart...HCM ... Only available in restrictive program. Side effects...including death. As little at $10.00 a month. Wow. Sounds lide a great thing to ask my doctor about... 

NUCALA ..for COPD from GSK

VOLTAREN - "clinically something... (commercial on TV cut off) Guess I'll need to ask my doctor what the hell that commercial was trying to say about Arthritis Pain.

Shesh. Add a bunch of Law firms throwing phone numbers and offers like "If you don't get paid, we don't get paid." I need a doctor who can sit with me while I am trying to sort out all these commercial massages. 

SKYRIZI - ...get back in the picture. Huh? Intestinal lining...Abbvie must be a great healer company because SKYRIZI music and happy people on TV make me wanna ask my doctor...

Key trends in US pharma television advertising include:

  • Massive Spending and Impressions: Pharma companies spend more than 7 billion on National TV Advertising. The US is one of only two countries that allow direct-to-consumer (DTC) prescription drug advertising on television. 
  • Top Therapeutic Categories: The heaviest TV ad budgets belong to immunology, weight loss, and mental health drugs. Blockbuster medications like Skyrizi, Rinvoq, Wegovy, and Ozempic regularly top the monthly spending charts. 
  • Regulatory Challenges: The FDA has cracked down on misleading advertising, pushing for longer risk disclosures. This trend is making long-form disclosures impractical for brief linear TV ads and is pushing brands toward streaming formats where longer disclosures are easier to include. 



Sunday, May 31, 2026

The Face that Launched...

 






The Face That Launch'd A Thousand Ships

Was this the face that launch'd a thousand ships,
And burnt the topless towers of Ilium?
Sweet Helen, make me immortal with a kiss.
Her lips suck forth my soul: see where it flies!
Come, Helen, come, give me my soul again.
Here will I dwell, for heaven is in these lips,
And all is dross that is not Helena.
I will be Paris, and for love of thee,
Instead of Troy, shall Wittenberg be sack'd;
And I will combat with weak Menelaus,
And wear thy colours on my plumed crest;
Yea, I will wound Achilles in the heel,
And then return to Helen for a kiss.
O, thou art fairer than the evening air
Clad in the beauty of a thousand stars;
Brighter art thou than flaming Jupiter
When he appear'd to hapless Semele;
More lovely than the monarch of the sky
In wanton Arethusa's azur'd arms;
And none but thou shalt be my paramour!





















Note to self: Janie (2), Linda (3), Denise, Arlyn, Lynn, Amy (2), Jill (2), Jolie, Sharon, Teri, Andrea.  

Monday, December 22, 2025

Friday, October 31, 2025

Celebrate HBE


 








Frank and Jan Cipolla made a plan to visit Saint Louis, It was an opportunity for the confluence of personalities to gather at Oh London in Creve Coeur. Thursday October 30. It was a cool 60 degrees. 













Sarah and Todd Weaver, Paul Giacoletto, Chip and Julie Maddinger, Dave Cox, Wes Morgan, Darryl Vandiver, Karma Lamping, John and Marcy Darby, Chris Cedergreen, Teri Adams, Deb and Craig Bennet, Wayne and Karen Zimmerman, Charlie and Coanne Lee, John Grey, George Robin, Scott and Carla Menkes, Kay Maschek, Mark McLaren, Sherie Rolfing (Reed), Kathy Armstrong and more assembles for this impromptu meeting.