Monday, October 6, 2025

Classic Movie Monday 10/5/25






















I viewed three classic movies today - Murder, My Sweet (1944), Spellbound (1945) and East of Eden (1955). It's a Monday October 6, 2025 and I expect to catch a full moon later this evening. All three movies were recorded from Turner Classic Movies (TCM) and added to the momentum of my viewing yesterday to Lord of the Flies (1963). 





 









Murder, My Sweet (released as Farewell, My Lovely in the United Kingdom) is a 1944 American film noir, directed by Edward Dmytryk and starring Dick PowellClaire Trevor and Anne Shirley (in her final film before retirement).[4] The film is based on Raymond Chandler's 1940 novel Farewell, My Lovely. It was the first film to feature Chandler's primary character, the hard-boiled private detective Philip Marlowe.[5]

Murder, My Sweet is, along with Double Indemnity (released five months prior), one of the first noir films, and a key influence in the development of the genre.[5]

Spellbound is a 1945 American psychological thriller film directed by Alfred Hitchcock, and starring Ingrid BergmanGregory Peck, and Michael Chekhov. It follows a psychoanalyst who falls in love with the new head of the Vermont hospital in which she works, only to find that he is an imposter suffering dissociative amnesia, and potentially, a murderer. Although the film is based on the 1927 novel The House of Dr. Edwardes by Hilary Saint George Saunders and John Palmer, the plots are dramatically different.

East of Eden is a 1955 American epic period drama film directed by Elia Kazan and written by Paul Osborn, adapted from the fourth and final part of John Steinbeck's epic 1952 novel.

It stars James Dean as a wayward young man who, while seeking his own identity, vies for the affection of his deeply religious father against his favored brother, thus retelling the story of Cain and Abel. Appearing in supporting roles are Julie HarrisRaymond MasseyBurl IvesRichard Davalos, and Jo Van Fleet.

Although set in early 20th century Monterey, California, much of the film was actually shot on location in Mendocino, California. Some scenes were filmed in the Salinas Valley. Of the three films in which James Dean played the lead, this is the only one to have been released during his lifetime.[2]

Lord of the Flies is a 1963 British survival drama film written and directed by Peter Brook, adapted from William Golding's 1954 novel about 30 schoolboys who are marooned on an island where the behaviour of the majority degenerates into savagery.

The film was in production for much of 1961, though the film did not premiere until 1963, and was not released in the United Kingdom until 1964. Golding himself supported the film. When Kenneth Tynan was a script editor for Ealing Studios he commissioned a script of Lord of the Flies from Nigel Kneale, but Ealing Studios closed in 1959 before it could be produced.

The film premiered at the 1963 Cannes Film Festival, where it was nominated for a Palme d'Or. It was released in the UK by British Lion Films on July 23, 1964, and received positive reviews from critics. It was the first film adaptation of the novel, followed by a 1975 Filipino film and a 1990 American film.






Saturday, September 6, 2025

Law Firm Advertising









I'm not gonna name names. So, if any of the claims sound familiar don't sue me. I am painfully aware of how much it cost to advertise. I'm an old school veteran of the ad biz and I kind of mourn the time when marketing a product or service meant finding compelling and creative ways to differentiate your offering. 

In my view, advertising was more respectful of the consumer. I cannot avoid the the changing landscape of what use to be traditional advertising channels. I'm overwhelmed, for example, how often I am assaulted by law firms and how lame and insulting their messages are to its customer prospects. 

I recently drove Interstate 70 in Saint Louis a short 20 mile stretch from Creve Coeur, MO to the Old North Neighborhood. That round trip treated me to no less than a dozen billboards screaming in that busy stretch of challenging traffic. 

The lawyers must believe in the power of advertising but I wonder if they believe in the rationality of their prospective customers.  

We win!

I guess a fair number of people considering engaging legal representation want a firm that is competent. But, this message is pretty arrogant and not easy to substantiate. Do you win 100% of the time? (That can't be true.) Do you win more than the competition. (Where can I find a ranking and relative win-rates? Not available.) 

We win a lot!

This claim is even more reliant on the "bandwagon effect" but where can the average joe get a perspective on what a lot means. Giant victories? Multiple wins for the little guy?

Injured in an auto accident? Call us.

This suggests that injury law is just a routine dance. They often tell you in ads to not even listen to the insurance company. It suggests that there is no civility in this instant adversarial battle triggered by whatever happened on the road that resulted in your personal injury,

We're the biggest.

Biggest? Well does that mean you are good? Does it mean you are good? How does this you make you the best choice for me.

We're big.

Sometimes that claim isn't even relative to the competition: local, national, specialty or otherwise.

Consultation is FREE. We'll help you understand what your case is worth.

Talk is cheap. I get it. It won't take your firm long to determine if you have a case. 

Don't listen to the insurance company. (They are not going to get you the money you deserve.)

Yup. They want you to believe that your sorry injured self deserves compensation and the law firm knows how to go get it for you. 

We will treat you like family.

Sure, what time should I show up for Thanksgiving dinner? 

We are the best. 

And you have a short list of winning believers who might be credible enough to endorse you in advertising. 

When in doubt, as your advertising agency suggests, hit 'em over the head with your clever/easy to remember phone number. Oh and if your name is on the door you can impress your prospects with your incredible sincerity.

 






Edgy Business College













A bold future. UMSL proudly announces the naming of the college of business after accomplished alum Ed G. Smith. The naming is unprecedented and will propel the college – already a leader in social mobility and workforce development for Greater St. Louis – toward even greater levels of success.

Ed G. Smith College of Business!

Tuesday, May 27, 2025

Tampa Time 2025





SZ expense reports

Lindsey picked me up at the airport in Tampa but she has some work to do. I love just being around my baby girl and she allowed me to hang with her at her place of business while she managed coding and submitting receipts for countless programs for which she is responsible.

Go Aviators! (Meet that outstanding teacher - who went to Ocean Township High School). Lawton's third grade teacher is tops and an advocate and ally. Classroom is lucky to have the support of Lawton's mom too. 

Dave and Busters (Minecraft in Brandon) - Lawton convinced Papa to sit back and enjoy car crashes, near misses, free falls and pure simulated terror before he builds, defeats foes and plays with TNT on the big screen with Minecraft.


 









Cigar Factory Tour (Coming to America through Baltimore and Cleveland to Ybor City) Julius Caesar Newman family came to America from Austria-Hungary in the 1880s. Young J.C. Newman learns how to roll cigars in Cleveland before building a Cigar Business in Floridsa the early 1900s. 













Flan Factory is Flan-TASTIC (and makes mean Empanadas too). Thanks to Cody, our 25 yr old cigar factory guide, for the recommendation.












St Petersburg Mural trolly tour with Crit! and Pedro. We spent an informative and entertaining two hours with ongoing information from our guide Miss Crit! She is an artist and muralist and one of several featured muralists on display and with credibility enhanced by participation in annual showing at "Shine". (Miss Crit!, Derek Donnelly, The Vitale Brothers, Ben Johnson, Sarah Sheppard, MadC, Tasko, Taj Tenfold and more)

Big City Greens on Disney + and NHL on TV - The Big City Greens Matriarch has a wooden leg (Ha Ha). Lawton programing introduces me to the Big City Greens. Between events and evenings at the Dewey compound we enjoyed The Big City Greens on Disney+ and/or Florida Panthers Hockey vs. Carolina Hurricanes (Panthers Lead) -  Florida NHL Hockey is alive in the playoffs even though the Tampa Bay Lightning  are not.  












Columbia Restaurant (Flan with a birthday candle, Flamenco Dancers, Yellow Rice, Coconut Ice Cream and more)

Splash Harbour, Indian Rocks Beach (The two big water slides, a lazy river and the HOT FOOT). Ice Cream with Coach Roush and visiting Wendy Leigh.

Three Birds Tavern (Eggs Benedict) - After a full afternoon on the hot surfaces and wet waterways at Splash Harbour, Greg treated us to Three Birds Tavern for a feel of Old Florida in St. Petersburg. I had a favorite - Eggs Benedict.













Indian Rocks Beach (Coach Roush, Wendy Leigh, and Splash Harbour). We had a plan to meet up with coach Roush and his wife at Kooky Coconut Ice Cream but it was closed so we moved to the Yellow Banks Grove for the orange swirl cones. Coach says the Lakewood High School class of 1974 was a favorite of his. It was a thrill to be with this former Marine and outstanding coach. When he revealed his age at 91, I confirmed that I appreciate his generation that includes as my amazing mother-in-law, our Matriarch, age 94.












Tampa Junior League is located in Tampa on a beautiful waterway that looks like a premium piece of real estate. Lindsey scrambles to break down 6 display stands that she felt needed to be out of view and stored away for another occasion. 

Dunkin (Bagels, Donuts and time for school in uniform) Last Day in Tampa begins with a drive through experience at Dunkin for bagels and donuts before Lawton's school drop off and Papa's shuttle to the airport. (Southwest Airlines Wanna Get Away fare brought me into town via Baltimore and returning via Denver. By the end of that travel I was in a "Wanna Get Away" from the Airlines and holiday week travel. It was a full and fun week nevertheless.





P.S. This account is surely out of sequence as the whole trip was packed with moments to be remembered and cherished.












Sunday, May 18, 2025

Lakehouse Meet


 













"Wes, there is someone I want you to meet, I think you'll like her, Dude..." says my good friend Perry Drake. The Midwest Digital Marketing Conference (MDMC 25) is winding down and Dr. Drake is again trying to facilitate a connection for me.  

We missed a couple of opportunities to meet during the busy two days at The University Missouri - Saint Louis event on campus on May 13 and 14.  Perry and his gal, Beth, have already been busy hopeful matchmakers with Beth's bestie, Donna. Now, Perry is determined introduce me to Bonnie. Perry is a believer in digital solutions to human dilemmas and probably has more confidence in on-line matchmaking that I ever will. Bonnie, has personal experience with finding potential soul-mate this way and takes some credit for helping Perry find Beth. 

Perry prompts me to get to know Bonnie so the texting begins. She wants to meet for coffee but it will have to be after 5pm or on the weekend. I propose an 11:00 Saturday meeting at The Lakehouse Bar & Grill overlooking Creve Coeur Lake. "Sounds great, I look forward to meeting you then," texts Bonnie. 

Saturday morning comes and I'm a little anxious about the meeting but it's a beautiful breezy day and the sun is shining on the lake. The restaurant doesn't open until 11:00 am but I find a spot to read in the open air. (I'm reading a biography of Warhol by Blake Gopnik.) On the other side of the rail tracks, the athletic fields at Lou Fusz soccer park are abuzz with competition. The restaurant opens and I stake a location for us as I read Bonnie's text. "Running late Sorry! No power at home all night. About 5 min." 

"Wes?" she appears, startling me a bit . I give her a hug. She smiles and she considers the menu and asks for coffee. I have a prop which I thought might amuse, an artful mosaic piece with script Bonnie name plate. She was not amused and looking for her coffee. "So, are you dating anyone? (This is he opening line of a task-oriented digital marketer on a quest). She opened the door with this question and I could not help telling her. "I'm in love with my high school girlfriend." This surely was a deal-breaker if in fact I was looking to close a sale. I was not. My naive intent on scheduling this pow wow as just a casual get to know ya. We chatted for 2 hours. But I mostly talked about my episodic life and my family (using a b&w photo inside my 2024 Holiday Card as visual aid to mentions of my mother-in-law, my kids and my two grandchildren). 



We left the restaurant, and I proposed a walk since it was a beautiful day. "I've got to meet a friend who needs to go shopping for a dress for a wedding. We're meeting at 1:30." 

So, in two hours I talked about me. I talked about my family. I talked about Janie. I learned only as much about her as Bonnie was willing to share. She talked about being an entrepreneur and business coach, podcaster and digitally savvy speaker. A bit about the teaching profession. She's a lifelong St. Louis native with Education degrees from Miami University (Ohio) and UMSL. 




Text just an hour or so later on Saturday:
 
Me - Thanks for tollerating me. Next time I'll have PowerPoint 90 minutes qued up. 

Bonnie - Not interested in someone who's in love with someone else. 

That's me trying to be funny and her confirming her lack of interest in a relationship for which I wasn't looking.  

Bonnie Frank meeting at Creve Coeur Boathouse Bar & Grill NOTES
  • 1.      Running Late for an 11:00 am Saturday Meeting. (Did you not have enough time       to plan for this very important meeting?)
  • 2       Startled me when she arrived.  (Ha)
  • 3.       Opening question about who I was dating. (Implies a task-orientation)
  • 4.       To my comment about how cool and what an honor to have grandchildren named for my parents Lawton and James – “That’s what Jewish people do.” (Ha. Thanks for the insight I might already have having been married to a Jewish woman for 41 yrs)
  • 5.       To my comment on education – glad I didn’t choose it as my career – “Not all schools/districts…” (Implies my sample size is too small to judge even thought I worked for SSD, Riverview Gardens SSD, Winfield and Confluence Academy).
  • 6.       Confluence – She had insider info and insight into founder from Clayton (waiting until her kids were out of HS.)
  • 7.       I don’t have cable or streaming services. (So my reference to John Walsh and wife and Polo Pony ranch commercial about Omega product not related to… She did recall America’s Most Wanted TV show and maybe Adam Walsh story.)
  • 8.       I am not interested in someone who’s in love with someone else. (Okay but I wasn’t tryin’ to hook up, just get to know you – at Drake’s prompting)
  • 9.       Coffee, more coffee, reheat….ha. (Funny how many refills. Trying to compensate for lack of sleep?)
  • 10      Would not show me her name tag (on her coat in parking lot) – What are you hiding? Maybe a truer picture of job?
  • 11.  No insight into her family or relationships… accept her observation when Perry was in hospital. “Marry Her.”  Hmmm (Maybe I was talking too much about me….)
My take is that bonnie was more task oriented in the mold of online digital solution to a human interaction vs. my old school goal in agreement to “get to know her over coffee’ 


NOTE: 

Bonnie Frank May/June 2025 - Lakehouse meet. Intro via Perry Drake. 
Susan Signorino Omaha intro by Mark Denk - SLAM Friday July 11, 2025
Donna - Fredericktown Beth bestie Donna Jeffreys
Denise DeVille plus one at K-Mo/Mad wedding in June 2022
  

 


     
   

Friday, May 16, 2025

Mummy Cat














A sleek, proud bronze created in honor of the Egyptian goddess Bastet, “Cat” has lived at least six of her nine lives already. She was born between 664 and 332 BC, during Egypt’s Saite dynasty. A collector in Alexandria, M. Dattori, got his paws on her in the early 1900s, but Sage recalls a few cocktail party whispers (later echoed in a 1938 New York Times article) that she’d been sequestered by the German government as French property. She was released in 1920 and later sold to a New York collector—who sold her in 1937 to the Brummer Gallery.

The Depression was grinding on. In our efforts to give relief to the poor, St. Louis was about $2 million overdrawn that year. “And St. Louis, whose population has a background in which thrift and conservatism bulk large, does not like to be in debt,” noted the Times.

Hence the catfight. Smitten with the bronze, the Saint Louis Art Museum handed the Brummer Gallery $14,400 for “Cat.” Letters about this cat who was stealing food from the mouths of the poor poured into the St. Louis Post-Dispatch and St. Louis Star-Times. One suggested selling the museum’s entire collection and putting the museum commissioners on display, 25 cents admission. Another hoped that all the cats in the city would congregate at the commissioners’ homes and yowl all night. Union leaders picketed, carrying signs that read, “$14,000 for a useless cat—nothing for labor.” Even artists protested the museum’s preference for antiquity over their modern works.

“Cat” sat erect, staring into the middle distance.

When she finally deigned to respond, in a letter to the Star-Times, she admitted being troubled—despite her “Egyptian imperturbability”—on reading a description of herself as an inanimate object. She extolled her own sleek elegance and menace, adding, “I am not vain. I am only truthful.” By then she was close to breaking the museum’s attendance record. New York and Paris had written about her. And soon, screenwriter and director Albert Lewin would beg to borrow her for his 1945 film The Picture of Dorian Gray, saying she was one of the most beautiful Egyptian artifacts he’d ever seen.

Such beauty is fragile, the museum responded, but he was welcome to copy her—so it is a replica of St. Louis’ “Cat” who grants Dorian’s wish that his painting age in his place. For the film (which made almost $1.4 million in U.S. box offices), artist Ivan Albright painted a lurid portrait of Gray’s otherwise invisible dissolution, the cat serene in the background. That painting is part of the permanent collection of the Art Institute of Chicago.

And “Cat,” in all her mystery, is ours.

https://www.stlmag.com/topics/st-louis-sage/.

Sunday, May 11, 2025

Laumeier Art Fair 2025

 












I volunteered to help out at the Annual Art Fair again this year. Since 2012 I have been a docent and member. My duties over the three day event was essentially to man the Artist Hospitality tent. The weather cooperated and a steady stream of visitors viewed 150 artists work for sale leading up to Mother's Day on Sunday. A robust schedule of live music and lots of food trucks and vendors gave visitors plenty of food options. 

I think this was my 12th or 13th art fair in a row. I think it's fair to say I am a credible judge of the overall quality of this year's show. Maybe my favorite thing is the social nature of just being there.

  • Perry Drake, Beth Hammond, Donna Jeffries and another lady (former majorette from Fredericktown).
  • Stephanie Camden 
  • John Grizzell and Francesca
  • Marie Oberkirsch from Central Print (former LSP)
  • Sarah Lorenz - Plein Air Painter
  • Neil Brown - Photographer
  • Liz Murphy Siense (sp?) with husband Chuck and their little girl. Liz if former LSP employee who went to the Science Museum and recently moved to the Federal Reserve. I asked her what I should do with my pennies. Her response "Hang on to them. It will take an act of congress to eliminate that bit of currency in spite of political pressure." She invited me to schedule a tour.
  • Maureen Jennings, Ferda, Mary Hansen former docent colleagues.

When I rise up, let me rise joyful like a bird. When I fall, let me fall without regret like a leaf.